Lilith Conjunct Eros

Lilith is the wild untamed female energy in our chart. Even in a man’s chart, it represents the kind of woman/partner who scares him but he secretly obsesses over. Eros is pure unadulterated passion and our romantic sexual urges. Your Eros sign shows you what your most erotic turn-ons are but also creativity. He is the son of Aphrodite [love/beauty] and Ares [ambition/rage/drive/sex] in mythology and as a result, “irresistible”. The unrefined “Cupid”, if you will.

With Both of These Together Natally...

It indicates a person who might have a lot of sex appeal. Someone passionate and who might be unafraid of expressing it. The way they go about it might be “shocking” or unorthodox/unapologetic [Lilith]. They are romantics but not the types to sing ballads or serenade you. Rather, they’re the types to try to seduce. To make you long/lust after them. To give you a hard time until you become theirs. If any of you watched “Gilmore Girls”, think of Jess in hot pursuit of Rory. 

In Synastry 

It can indicate two people who are wildly attracted to each other, but the square can indicate things get hot and heavy. This will be in no way superficial. There could even be a Plutonic theme going on seeing as, though Eros is a ‘minor planet’ his effect is not ‘minor’ at all. Eros is where we derive the word “erotic”. The square between these two can manifest between two people in a very torturous way. There can be a very intense, psychically damaging, and life-changing relationship when these two meet.  Scorching passion and obsession. The kind of energy that can make one bankrupt themselves on Lyfts/Ubers/ Plane tickets just to see each other. Quitting Jobs to be near one another on a whim. Natural and effortless sexual connection/ but it can become an addiction. The romance may be so hot and heavy it can blind both people to a lot of things they shouldn’t ignore. Lilith wants it all, no holds barred. She’ll rip your clothes off in public if she has to. Eros is the same, and will not settle for anything less than intense encounters that lead to lasting transformation. As a result, if intimacy is withheld or if two people are not able to connect with each other physically, they may crumble. However, this ‘crumbling’ can lead people to some of the most creative experiences of their life. Eros is also about creativity and passion, so this kind of interaspect is what inspire people to write those torturous love songs, create devastatingly profound romantic films, or write books like “You”/”Hidden Bodies”.

Advice?

Be very very careful with this one. It may sound fabulous to have such an intense connection but remember, Lilith can act a lot like Pluto on steroids and Eros overpowers the mind this sort of romantic mania. He doesn’t give AF who he points his arrows at. Once he hits you, especially in hard aspect with another, you’ll be hard-pressed to let-go. Two people will need to be very mature to handle this in a square. You’ll need some healthy Saturn aspects to temper this out and ground you.