it can be difficul to compormise and have a balanced and peaceful relationship together. commitment issues, indecision and lack of respect need to be addressed here. this is the type of relationship were you tend to smooth out things or just ignore when conflict arises, but this can cause even more chaos.

venus placed in the 12h usually indicates that this is a secret relationship. if it's bad aspected, then it can be hard for you to show affection towards one another, since there's a tendency here to hold back on what you feel for each other for some reason. but, if it's good aspected, then affection here is shown when others aren't around. you can find it easier to open up about old wounds and issues, and you may feel you have a soul connection.

if you're planning on living together, start a family together or you just start to feel more comfortable with one another, then you're likely to not wanting a home life that is normal or conventional... or you don't want to live together at all, because you prioritize freedom and independency a lot, so you want to have your own space. you can have an unusual relationship. emotional connection may be difficult here as well; you have to at least respect each other to make this relationship work.

even though I said that emotional connection may be difficul here, it's key for the relationship. you want to express your emotions, even though it can be difficult to do so... you need to get out of your comfort zone in order to achieve this. this placement can cause more arguments when you don’t understand one another emotionally, or when you’re being too subjective.